Does it really make any difference if I pray?
I've been thinking lately about the whole concept of prayer. And while doing this, I was reminded of a magazine article I read a while ago (don't recall which magazine offhand) about some scientists and researchers who conducted a study on the effectiveness of prayer. They apparently came to the conclusion that you couldn't scientifically prove that prayer actually works. Duh! Really?
Anyway, it does bring up something that a lot of the faithful do wonder about...that is, do my prayers really matter? I mean, if God's will is going to be done anyway, does it really make a difference if I pray? And, if He knows my needs before I even ask, why do I still need to ask? And by their actions, you might conclude that many Christian's answer to these questions would be in the negative. For if we really thought that prayer did indeed make a difference, we would pray about everything! But most believers admitedly don't pray like this. My desire here in this blog is to share some thoughts that will hopefully motivate you to pray more.
Part of the problem that I see is that we're confused about our relationship with God in the outworkings of His eternal plan. While we know that God's will indeed will be done and His ultimate plan cannot be thwarted, we can, if we're not careful, begin to at least subconsciously adopt a Christian version of a que sera sera, whatever will be will be..." attitude. I contend that this rather fatalistic view is not taught in the Bible, nor do I believe that God wants us to believe that our prayers don't matter.
Now, there are certainly other reasons that we don't get our requests answered. One notable reason is that we are praying contrary to God's will and, really, contrary to our own best interests. Other reasons would be that prayer is for us, to help us come into a better understanding of God's will for something, or to cast our anxieties upon Him, to find peace that passes all understanding. Another obvious reason to pray is to commune with God, to draw near, for no other reason than to spend time with Him and grow in grace. I do not want to discount those important reasons nor do I wish to minimize their purpose in prayer. But I also believe that there is much more to prayer than this, and so it's imperative that believers understand this so we can work more effectively in the Kingdom.
First, we need to remember that the Bible does indeed tell us to pray. In fact, we are to told to pray without ceasing (I Thess.5:17) and if it were not so, Jesus would've told us to pray, even to be persistent in our asking. In Matt.7:7 (NLT version), “Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you." Of course,we also know that Jesus prayed constantly during His earthly ministry and now, we see in Romans 8 and Hebrews 7, that both the Holy Spirit intercedes for us, and Jesus ever lives to make intercession for us before God (to "intercede" literally means to meet, to stand up for someone else). So,prayer and intercession are obviously important to God!
That our prayers really matter is the underlying principle Jesus is teaching in the so-called "Lord's Prayer" in Matt.6:9-13. We notice three things right up front about this prayer:
First, that we address God as our Father...He's our Father! This speaks of intimacy and special priviledge. Because of faith in Jesus' Blood shed on the Cross for us, we have access to our heavenly Father, the Giver of all good things. He is someone we can approach with confidence, and where we can find grace and help in time of need (Heb.4:16)
Second, hallowed be Your name...we worship Him as God alone, acknowledging the exceeding glory of His holiness. That He is our only source and supply. That we put no other gods before Him nor do we look to any one else to get our needs met.
Third, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven." We invite God's rule, His activities into our lives here on the earth. The rest of the prayer deals with doing exactly this in our everyday lives.
Now, before I go further, let me say that God doesn't need to do this. But, for His own reasons, He chooses to include us in His affairs. And let me also say that this does not diminish His sovereignty in any way. In fact, it's part of it! Also, it doesn't mean we can get whatever we want if we pray. The key to this, and to prayer in general, is that prayer is connected somehow with God's will being released on the earth as it's already done in heaven. And if it didn't matter if we prayed for His will to be done on earth, Jesus' instructions here would be absolutely pointless.
Here's what Andrew Murray said about prayer..."God's giving is inseparably connected to our asking...only by intercession can that power be brought down from heaven, which will enable the Church to conquer the world."
Now, before you say that this is heresy, consider this...
God sent Israel into captivity because there was no one to intercede for them..."So I sought for a man among them who would make a wall, and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land, that I should not destroy it; but I found no one." Ezek.22:30. Therefore, Israel had to be put in God's furnace of affliction for 70 years because no one was praying or interceding.
This begs the question...what if someone would've "stood in the gap" and prayed for them? Would the outcome have been different? The answer can only be, yes, otherwise God would not have said so. This doesn't change His foreknowledge of Israel's future, or His ultimate will, but only how He waits for men to partner with Him through prayer and intercession in order to effect outcomes.
Still not convinced? Then consider these examples...
Abraham saves Lot from destruction by interceding with God when He planned to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah (Gen 18)
Moses intercedes for Israel when God was determined to totally destroy them and start over while they were in the wilderness because they refused to enter the Promised Land (Num.14).
Daniel prays for God's will to be done after finding out that the time of Jeremiah's prophecy, that Israel would be in captivity for 70 years, was about to come to an end (see Daniel 9:1-3).
The question is, what would've happened in just these few examples, if no one had set their hearts to pray or to intercede? You can't say that these situations would've still turned out the same. Certainly, Lot would've died in Sodom, Israel would've perished in the wilderness, and at least there's a possibility that the outcome of Israel's return from captivity would've been different too. You can only rightfully say that God foreknew what they would do and planned for it in advance. But either way, from our perspective at least, it makes a huge difference whether we pray or not. Whether we choose to cooperate with God's plan for our generation.
Let me close with this...that God is more amazing than we can imagine! Now, there's nothing surprising or revelatory about that statement, but it's much more than that. While He knows the end from the beginning, and He establishes our way, and His plan cannot be thwarted, yet...He waits for us to ask, to knock, to seek...to release His will upon the earth. That is mind-boggling! Do you realize what this means, mighty saint of God? It means that we have a part to play in history and what we do does make a difference! And like Abraham, Moses, Daniel, Jesus, and those faithful who have gone before us, we can partner with God...as His friend...Who, as we draw near and abide in Him, tells us His secret things (Gen.18:17-19:Psalm 25:14; John 15:7-8) in order to execute His plan and purposes and, thus, glorify His name on the earth!
I hope that you will pray and seek His face. And may His will indeed be done in you, and me, as it is done in heaven. Amen.

